Healing your relationship with the opposite sex is fundamental to creating a devotional partnership.
The relational field between men and women is under great strain.
We are at a threshold where we must choose - division or union.
Do you feel the call in your heart?
Sound familiar?
You finally meet someone emotionally available but are terrified to trust and open up.
You brace, protect and project without giving them a chance to show you who they truly are.
You experience the same dynamic with different people over and over again.
You jump from one connection to the next without ever really meeting the person in front of you, hoping this time it’ll be different.
You have a long list of criteria that determines whether they are safe, desirable, high value or good enough.
Then you enter a connection with these preconceived ideas - and love doesn’t stand a chance.
Your inherited beliefs become self-fulfilling prophecies unless you intentionally rewrite the story.
Let's rewrite the story.
Every connection becomes an opportunity for growth.
You allow others the chance to show you who they really are, not who your past told you they would be.
You stay in your centre when disagreement arises, when your heart is pounding, and you’d usually look for the door.
Instead of withdrawing, you lean in and invite the other to meet you there.
You meet in presence, curiosity and a genuine desire to understand each other.
Not as enemies, fantasies or projects. Not trying to prove that one is right and the other is wrong.
As messy human beings and unique expressions of the Divine.
You touch the deeper longing beneath it all.
The longing to be seen, heard, met, loved and accepted - to belong.
The longing for intimacy that reaches beyond the mind and into the body, heart, spirit and sex.
And the longing in your heart to merge into Sacred Union.
What is MERGE?
MERGE is a ceremonial mastermind rooted in Tantric philosophy to unravel the stories of your past, lay down your weapons and meet yourself and the opposite sex in trust and truth, depth and devotion.
A relational training ground to learn and practise conscious relating without the pressure of having to ‘get it right’ cos this might be The One.
Where you can ask the questions and have the conversations you always wanted to have with the opposite sex.
And offer forgiveness, compassion and allyship.
You'll identify the patterns that show up when attraction, rejection, disappointment or uncertainty arises and learn to respond differently.
Relationships are mirrors that reveal your blindspots in ways that solitude simply can’t.
Intimacy is cultivated in the moments when your carefully constructed identity gets challenged.
MERGE puts you in the room with the people who have the potential to activate the exact patterns you’re trying to shift.
And gives you the skills and tools to transform them in real time.
This is where you practise staying present, telling the truth and remaining connected to yourself in connection.
This is the path of relational mastery.
This is for you IF
You're single and desire to heal your relationship with the opposite sex in order to call in a sacred, conscious partnership.
You know how you want to show up in connection but as soon as attraction arises, you shrink, perform or abandon yourself.
You know what you want from a partner but still choose people who are unable to meet you in the depths you desire.
You're ready to show up, engage, be seen and bring your voice to the group.
You’re willing to look at your own patterns and take responsibility for your side of relational dynamics.
You’ve explored the realms of men’s or women’s work and/or Tantra, neo-Tantra, conscious relating or sacred sexuality but recognise there is still something missing.
You have a big heart and a big soul-led mission, you may already be an entrepreneur, leader or visionary in your own field.
You’re open to being lovingly challenged as well as supported.
You recognise that the Divine Feminine and Divine Masculine are in service and devotion to each other.
You know a new paradigm of love, relationships and union is possible and you’re here for it.
You can commit to showing up to the live calls and bringing your energy to the group.
What isn't MERGE?
Whilst this is a space to practise connection, and attraction may arise naturally, it’s not a dating or matchmaking program. There will be strict boundaries in place around connection with other participants outside of specific communication channels to maintain the safety and integrity of the space.
This is not a space to learn strategies or formulae for attracting the opposite sex.
This is not a space to share or process unresolved trauma. Reach out to Rachael if you need this, so she can guide you in the right direction, either working with her 1:1 or with a recommended trauma specialist.
This is not a space for blaming, shaming or perpetuating the division between men and women.
There will be zero tolerance for any violation of the container boundaries.
What do others say about working with Rachael?
I came to Rachael longing for deep soulmate love, but I didn’t know if I could truly hold it. From the moment we opened our container, things began shifting. It was pure magic. Her presence is powerful, sacred, grounded in truth and every session felt like ceremony. We unravelled conditioning, released old fears and I opened to a level of love I didn’t know was possible. While we were still working together, I met my current partner - a level of love and connection I had never experienced before. And because of the deep preparation I did with Rachael, I was truly ready to receive and hold it. I owe so much to Rachael. She is the real deal, fierce, loving, no-bullshit and wildly devoted to your liberation. She will meet you, love you, and help you become who you were always meant to be ~ Donna Mariella, Leadership, Awakening & Sexuality Coach (1:1 Client)
I came to Rachael with the intention to reactivate my Shakti energy after an unhealthy relationship and totally feeling unmet in my needs and desires both sexually and emotionally. My experience in working with her was extraordinary. I feel like I quantum leaped. I went from having the worst sex of my life to the absolute greatest - and manifested the most beautiful connections into my field. I felt so empowered and magnetic. It was all literally straight out of my wildest dreams. I honestly recommend that every woman works with Rachael. She created such a safe, nurturing and expansive space for me to do some deep relationship and sexual healing. ~ Rebecca Leana, Intuitive Designer & Oracle (1:1 Client)
I began coaching with Rachael during one of the most challenging seasons of my life, navigating health challenges that had deeply impacted my vitality, confidence, sexuality, relationship and sense of self. Rachael held such a safe, intuitive and deeply attuned space. She met me exactly where I was, helping me gently unravel layers of conditioning, reconnect with my own truth, and step more fully into my power as a woman. I especially loved the embodiment work. The somatic practices allowed each session’s insights to become something I could truly feel and integrate, leading to some profound breakthroughs. I’m deeply grateful for our time together and would wholeheartedly recommend Rachael to anyone seeking compassionate, intuitive and truly transformational support. ~ Anon, Artist, Visionary, Founder (1:1 Client)
What's Included?
6 LIVE ZOOM SESSIONS WITH RACHAEL
Teachings. Transmissions. Ritual. Conscious Relating. Tantric Philosophy. Sacred Sexuality. Polarity. Self-enquiry. Inner Parts Work. Shadow Work.
TANTRIC-SOMATIC PRACTICES
Breathwork. Somatic Alchemy. Erotic Awakening. Exploring the sensations, impulses, contractions, desires and subtle wisdom available when you slow down enough to listen.
PARTNER WORK
Open conversations between men and women around love, intimacy and relating in breakout rooms to explore connection and embody the teachings in real-time.
HOT SEAT
COACHING & Q&A
Bring your dating and relating questions and challenges for transformation in real time.
PRIVATE TELEGRAM COMMUNITY
Connect with the group. Share insights, breakthroughs and celebrations. Receive support in between live sessions.
INTEGRATION CEREMONY
Additional live ceremony to celebrate and integrate the journey. Takeaway practices to support embodiment.
Your Investment
$1111 pay in full
Payment plan available
2 x $575
VIP UPGRADE
Includes 2 x 1:1 sessions (90 mins) with Rachael to deepen your MERGE experience
$1555
When are the live calls?
6-8pm UK / 7-9pm CET / 10am-12pm PT / 1-3pm ET